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Locked down but not out in Italy

Singing from the balconies! One nice thing about this crisis ... solidarity! “Guess you’re not living like a tourist anymore,” was the funny, truthful and somewhat gut-wrenching message of a friend the day the lockdown in Italy began. Today is day 6. My beloved Italia has been hit hard with the COVID19 epidemic. With the second largest elderly population in the world, the epidemic has meant a disproportionate amount of deaths in the country. So though I haven’t been worried about contracting it myself, this isn’t about me or someone like me who, if contracted it would probably have a sucky couple of weeks and then recover. It is about if someone like me contracted it and then spread it to a person with a complicated health history or an elderly person with a weakened immune system. Eerily orderly: Lines for the grocery store, each person one meter apart In a country with no concept (and no physical room really) for personal space, and in a city with reproachable hygie

Out of my mind: the gift of running

The most common constructive criticism that I tend to get is: “You think too much.” There has never been a more true statement. I am ALWAYS thinking.

Yet, I am no Socrates. I don’t often ruminate on scientific theories or mathematical calculations. My thoughts are not generally useful in nature and are not particularly enlightening to anyone but me (sometimes not even me). But I can’t stop the wheels from turning. My mind loves to create links between the past, present and potential future.

An innocuous song or inconspicuous sign for something as mundane toothpaste is enough to set off the spin, reminding me of running out of toothpaste in a past camping trip, which will remind me of my camp leader, which will make me wonder where he ended up, which will make me remember how he said the best years of life are the college years, which will make me think of my own college Emory, which will remind me how I loved being a student, which will make me revisit why I haven’t done a PHD yet, which will have me conclude that I have not found my “calling,” which will have me ponder whether there is such a thing as a “calling” or whether it is something we made up to make ourselves feel better about the time we wasted in “finding our calling,” which will lead me to wonder if a “calling” is perhaps just a nifty marketing technique for self-help books, continuing education classes and yoga, which will make me jump to the thought that I have yet to try yoga and I should pick up a gym schedule…

Exhausted? Me too. But my brain loves these spiraling patterns of thought. I don’t.

So I am often thrilled to find something that will get my brain to shut up. To date, I have only found two remedies. The first was sky diving. Of course, in the weeks between signing up for sky diving and the moment of the actual jump, my brain was feasting on this 7 course meal that I had just treated it to: potential death. Is there any topic more ripe for analysis?

However, in the 60 seconds between the edge of the plane’s door and the opening of the parachute, my free fall was total peace. I thought nothing, and it was bliss. Every item, thought, crumb, particle, atom of thought in my head cleared out as I plummeted. When I landed safely on the ground, I was addicted, but I think I was more addicted to this peace than to the endorphins that kick in when your body senses falling to its death.

Sky diving, however, is not a very practical cure. It is not something that can be done on a whim. It has way too many requirements- a plane, a runway, a clearing, an instructor, a (very important) parachute, a skydiving suit and, of course, an increasingly hefty sum of money.

So I am thankful that I came across the only other method of getting my mind clear: running. Unlike skydiving, running does not eliminate all my brain activity and erase my every thought. But it does something just as good- it organizes them. When I run, it is like the rhythm of my steps shakes out the bad from the good thoughts, the useless thoughts of toothpaste from the potentially more valuable thoughts of a PhD track. It pinpoints any anxiety, nervousness, or even just caffeine-jitteriness and strips them from other thoughts, transforming them into usable energy that fuels my run.

I used to despise running. I found it boring, difficult, boring, pointless, boring and, most annoyingly, a task usually required of you by an outside force: gym teachers, coaches, doctors or your average health-nut. I liked sports. I liked being active. I hated running.

My hate diminished a bit in college when the stress of studying usually required expending energy in some way other than ripping up a frustrating textbook. Running was often the best option because it was more convenient than finding teammates for a game of soccer or an opponent for a match of tennis. Convenience was, in fact, running’s biggest virtue in my mind, and it remained the only real reason behind my lackadaisical devotion to it until my first break-up.

All of a sudden the whirlwind of thoughts in my head required a more consistent and concrete channel out of my body. By happenstance, it was also during this period that I found myself as a spectator to the DC marathon. It dawned on me: I would do a marathon. What was a better cure than 4+ hours of continuous energy use? What else, if not running for the equivalent of half a work day, could focus my mind on something concrete and allow my days to be filled with thoughts on training rules, footwear, food intake, sleeping habits and hydration?

I figured I had more than enough thoughts to fuel my tank for this type of commitment, and right away, I signed up for a marathon training course (though I had barely ever done even a five mile run).

Of course, my thoughts alone weren’t quite enough to get me prepared for a marathon, and in reality it took 3 years of injury-healing-injury-healing periods before I would accomplish this feat. But in the meantime, I found a perfect way to get out of my head and let my body take the reins.

Chicago is a great running city. I feel a kinship with the oodles of runners who make use of the various trails. The Lakefront trail is my favorite, and I am grateful to the city planner who dedicated 18 miles of path to people who perhaps have the same neuroses as I. Perhaps the city planner himself was an over thinker-turned-jogger and the trails were an ingenious output of his obsessive thinking. Perhaps he too had suffered love’s loss and the Lakefront trail was where he would pound out his sadness. Perhaps the quiet sound of the lake’s waves and the comforting drone of the highway helped lull him into his run in the days before iPods. Or perhaps this is just me spinning my thought-wheels again and pointlessly analyzing something that could easily be found on Google… In that case, I guess it is time for a run.